The first few parts of my biography will basically be my grandfather grand mother stories... Lol... I actually do not know much about my grand father. My grand father not only have one family, although my grand mother is the official wife but they were not officially registered by law. My so called second grandma was the lawfully wife.
My life kind of turn upside down when grandma passed away. I was not even 4yrs old then. As dad needs to work, I was thrown here and there like a basket ball to be taken care by nannies and relatives. The feeling of being taken care of by strangers really sucks. Not having your family around and sleeping at others house is not good at all. Growing up without a mum is pathetic especially when I'm a gal.
I remembered that I had a bad fall at one of the nanny's house was rushed to the hospital and had my head stitched. I had very deep impression of the incident cause they send me to the hospital without wearing shoes for me and it was so cold my feet freeze. From the day grandma passed away till before I attended primary school, I was basically deposited to different house here and there.
There's was this family that I once stayed with which seems to be pretty rich from what I recalled. They are not one of the nannies, instead they are my father's friend. It's this old couple with their grown up children. They stayed in this big two storey private mansion apartment with a swimming pool downstairs. The old couple and their children seems to love me a lot. I had fun staying with them for a short while. My dad told me that they actually wanted to adopt me and pay my dad a sum of money and dad actually agreed on the deal.
That family had already planned to migrate to the States bringing me along with them. What happen next was that on the last night before I'm about to go with them, dad brought me out for farewell dinner and ice cream. I was told by my dad that I cried cause I didn't want to leave with them. Damn! Why did I do that? I should have go with them. My life would have been so different if I made that move. Oh well, I was still so young then what would I know?
To be continue...
