Monday, October 19, 2009

16th Dec 1975 Part 1

On the day 16/12/1975 a little baby gal was brought to this little dot 'Singapore' on the map. I was told by my dad that the doctor and nurses told him that he had a pretty little baby gal. I am the child of a talented, handsome & charming man and a beautiful woman whom I doesn't know much of. My life begins... I don't have much impression of my baby childhood time except for some baby photos that was taken during those days. I was told by many others of what had happen after I was born. My parent divorce shorting after I was born. Due to the fact that my grandma give birth to only sons, I had a total of six uncles including my dad which rounds up to seven. My uncles had only sons as well, that was the reason that my dad fight for my custody. My grand ma wanted gals in the family but she never had any. Well, was that the real reason? Was there even a law case to fight for my custody? Or is it my mum simply didn't want to take me with her? I wouldn't know... Grandma took care of me till I was about 4yrs old and she passed away in 1979. I do not have much impression of her. I was told that we were at my grand aunty's house, she carried me to the toilet to pee and she fainted. That's when the ambulance was called for and she was send to the hospital. While she was there, the doctor informed everyone that she had high blood pressure. Having seven sons and nobody knows that she was sick? That's such a sad thing. Everybody starts putting the blame on each others for not taking good care of her. I was told that some even put the blame on a innocent little gal who's not even 4yrs old. They said if it's not because of taking care of me and bringing me to the toilet she wouldn't have fainted. I was pretty upset when this was told to me. There we have 7 grown up who doesn't know their poor mother is sick and when things happened, everybody starts shifting blame. They are not even ashame that they actually put the blame on me when I wasn't even 4yrs old back then. Such a laughing stock...
To Be Continue...



It's 6:45am now and I have finished on the first part of my biography. I might not be able to recall many details of my life but will try my best to recall whatever I can. Never have the habit of writing diary but now I am gonna try to write it all down bit by bit. I dunno how long it will take me to reach the present now but I'm going to patiently jot it down to my life now and carry on from here. Please bear with my blog site as it's still under construction. Will be back to make it better. Time for me to catch some sleep... Good day...